godly relationships

We can change our actions faster than we can change our feelings. Love is not just feelings it is also actions. John 3:16 does not…

Counselees, former and current, say this is the most valuable problem-solving tool in my problem-solving-tool-kit. And I agree.  This tool is built on the time…

As previously stated, every impact statement is a tool. This tool, however, is the first of three primary tools in this overall study on problem…

In the problem solving process a person’s objectivity is often based on their most recent experience. Don’t disregard all past experiences, for in doing so,…

The three levels of a problem are the Presentation, Performance and Preconditioning. Knowing these predictable stages expedites problem solving. Remember, we will never be without…

This may seem an over simplification of all you have struggled with for perhaps too long – but it is not. For every problem God…

Earlier I stated every tool in this series is based on a verse, passage or biblical principle. When teaching this tool in a counseling setting…

The following plan is simple to state. Like anything worthwhile it takes personal discipline; but half the battle is won if we have confidence in…

Problems Are Solutions In Disguise Tool One: Up Until Now Everything You’ve Done Has Not Worked “Tom, where do you start when people come to…